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Feminism, Equality, and the Balance of Energies

The word feminist is one that stirs strong reactions. For some, it’s a proud declaration of support for women’s rights. For others, it carries uncomfortable weight, suggesting an imbalance that leans too far towards the feminine, leaving the masculine overlooked.

But what does it actually mean to be a feminist? And is the terminology itself helping, or is it sometimes a barrier to true understanding of equality?

What is a Feminist?

At its core, a feminist is simply someone who believes in the equality of women and men — socially, politically, and economically. It’s not limited to women; men and people of all genders can be feminists. The movement arose to address the imbalance where women were historically oppressed under patriarchy.

Yet, the terminology can be misleading. The word feminist seems to centre only the feminine, which can make some people (particularly men) feel excluded, or even fearful that it implies female superiority.

The Movement Versus the Word

Here lies the tension:

The movement of feminism is about equality.
The word “feminist” can sound one-sided.

A person might agree wholeheartedly with the cause, but hesitate to use the label. Others embrace the term as solidarity with women, even if the word carries baggage.

The Patriarchy as a System

The patriarchy that feminism challenges isn’t just about power being in the hands of men. It is a system of hierarchy that suppresses both men and women, while privileging an elite few — historically almost always men at the top.

Most men do not hold positions of great power, yet they are pressured into roles of toughness, emotional suppression, and relentless competition, which takes a toll on their wellbeing.
Most women face restrictions shaped by expectations of passivity, caregiving, and being valued more for appearance than for ability.
The system itself thrives on imbalance, rewarding domination and control while devaluing cooperation and care.

For men in particular, this system demands a brittle form of strength — to always appear hard, tough, and unyielding. But this is not true strength; it is fragility disguised. The hardest materials can stand firm, yet when they break, they shatter completely.

Real strength lies in pliability. Like trees, the ones that resist every gust of wind eventually snap, while those that bend remain standing. Even in machines we see this truth: the soft rubber of tyres absorbs impact and protects the car, whereas hard metal wheels would cause catastrophic damage.

Patriarchy, in pushing men towards hardness and denial of vulnerability, sets them up for collapse. True resilience is found in flexibility, emotional honesty, and the ability to adapt — qualities often coded as “feminine,” yet essential for everyone.

A Spiritual Lens

Beyond politics, there is also a spiritual dimension. Every person carries both masculine and feminine energies. Masculine qualities like drive, logic, and structure have long been prioritised, while feminine qualities like intuition, nurture, and receptivity have been undervalued.

From this perspective, feminism could be seen as part of a greater re-balancing of energies in the world. It is not about exalting one over the other, but restoring harmony. Both energies are vital. Just as a bird needs two wings to fly, humanity needs the masculine and feminine in balance to move forward.

Are We All Feminists?

If you believe in equality between men and women, then by definition you are a feminist — whether you choose the label or not. But words matter. Some prefer to call themselves egalitarian, humanist, or equalist. These alternatives may feel more inclusive, but activists sometimes argue they water down the focus on correcting women’s historic disadvantage.

Finding Balance in Difference

To claim “I am a feminist” is to align with the cause of equality, but it also ties you to a word that can feel unbalanced. Perhaps the challenge today is to hold both truths:

To support the equality that feminism stands for.
To recognise that the language we use must invite people in, not push them away.

True equality is not about erasing difference or pretending that men and women, masculine and feminine, are the same. It means appreciating and embracing what makes us different, while recognising that those differences do not justify inequality. Every person is unique; no two are the same — and that same truth applies to the sexes. What matters is not whether we are the same, but whether we are equally valued.

In the end, whether we use the word feminist or another term, the deeper calling is the same: to seek a world where masculine and feminine energies, in both society and ourselves, are valued equally and allowed to flourish in harmony.

✨ Balance is not about one side winning, but about both sides dancing together — each bringing its own uniqueness into the whole.

Politics

Abandoning Party Politics: A Call for Unity and True Fulfillment

In today’s world, the concept of politics often feels more like a battleground than a tool for unity. Party politics has entrenched itself as a system of division, fostering an "us versus them" mentality that pits people against one another in pursuit of power, greed, and manipulation. But what if we let go of this fractured framework? What if we abandoned the idea of party politics and embraced something deeper, something truer—a collective "us" rooted in understanding and collaboration?

The Illusion of Left and Right

Labels like "left-wing" or "right-wing" often serve as convenient boxes for others to place us in, yet they do not truly capture who we are. People on the right might view you as left-leaning, and those on the left might call you conservative. But what if you’re neither? What if politics, in its traditional sense, isn’t a part of who you are?

When we look past the labels, the truth emerges: we all want the same fundamental things—peace, fulfillment, and a better world. These are universal desires, not exclusive to any political ideology. Yet party politics thrives on dividing us, creating artificial enemies and rivalries to distract from this shared reality.

The Toxicity of "Them and Us"

At the heart of party politics lies the dangerous mindset: "You’re either with us or against us." This thinking has been the root cause of countless conflicts, wars, and divisions throughout history. It creates a false dichotomy, where collaboration becomes impossible, and compromise is seen as betrayal. But this is not the way forward.

There is no "them and us." There is only us. When we help our neighbors, we help ourselves. When we lift up others, we rise together. The world is not made better by creating enemies—it is improved when we recognize our shared humanity and work toward solutions that benefit everyone.

Ego, Greed, and the True Cause

Unfortunately, much of what we see in politics today is driven by ego and greed. Power becomes the end goal, and those in its pursuit often manipulate others to further their own agendas. This creates a system where control and domination overshadow genuine progress.

True fulfillment, however, cannot come from controlling others or forcing them down a path they did not choose. Fulfillment comes from authenticity, from living in harmony with oneself and the world around us. To create a world that is right for us—as individuals and as a collective—is to create a world that is right for everyone. Anything else is rooted in egotistical logic, which only leads to unhappiness and disillusionment.

A New Vision: Forgetting Party Politics

What if we abandoned party politics altogether? Imagine a system where decisions were made not out of loyalty to a party but out of loyalty to the truth and the common good. A system where we worked together not because we agreed on everything, but because we understood that our collective well-being depended on it.

To be true to ourselves is to be true to others. When we act in alignment with our values, we inspire others to do the same. And as we create a better life for ourselves, we inevitably create a better life for those around us. The ripple effect of authenticity, compassion, and collaboration is immeasurable.

A World Without Politics as We Know It

This vision is not utopian—it is realistic, but it requires a shift in mindset. We must reject the "us versus them" narrative and embrace the idea that we are all in this together. The current state of politics asks us to pick sides, but what if we refused? What if, instead, we chose unity over division, compassion over competition, and truth over manipulation?

At the end of the day, we all want the same thing: peace, happiness, and fulfillment. Let’s not allow party politics to pull us down paths that stray from this truth. Instead, let’s be true to ourselves, and in doing so, create a world that works for everyone.

The Call to Action

It starts with us. Let go of the need to label, divide, or control. Look beyond the walls that politics has built and see the humanity in everyone—neighbor, friend, or stranger. Together, we can create a society where collaboration replaces conflict, and fulfillment replaces frustration.

Let’s forget the politics of power and greed and embrace the politics of us. Because when we work together, there is no them—there is only us.

Politics

Politics, at its core, is the process through which groups of people make collective decisions. It is the art and practice of governing, organizing, and influencing people within a society or community. The term originates from the Greek word "polis," meaning city-state, which was a political unit in ancient Greece.

True Definition:

Politics involves the activities, actions, and policies used to gain and maintain power or to influence decision-making within a group, organization, or government. It is fundamentally about the allocation of resources, negotiation of power, and resolution of conflicts in human societies.

Key Elements:

Power: The ability to influence or control others' actions or decisions.
Authority: The recognized and legitimate use of power.
Governance: The structures and systems in place to organize and regulate society.
Conflict and Resolution: Politics often emerges as a way to address competing interests and ideas.
Public Policies: Decisions and actions aimed at achieving specific societal goals.

Dimensions of Politics:

Formal Politics: This includes structured institutions like governments, parliaments, and legal systems.
Informal Politics: Power dynamics and influence within social groups, workplaces, or personal relationships.
Philosophical Politics: The study of political theories, justice, rights, and the ideal forms of government.

Broader Perspective:

Politics is not limited to government; it can occur in any context where individuals or groups negotiate, bargain, or assert their interests. For example:

Workplace dynamics involve office politics.
Family discussions often involve informal political decision-making.
Activism and social movements are forms of political action.

Ultimately, politics is about how societies organize themselves, distribute resources, and manage relationships of power and responsibility. It is a fundamental aspect of human interaction.